Misc problems with SuSE 10.0

Hi, I've encountered 2 small problems with my new 10.0 install. Mostly a default setup with KDE. 1. When I send a file to trash in KDE, it does not go to trash, but is deleted instead. Is there a setting to correct this? I would rather files go to trash first. 2. On shutdown, when I click and hold the "restart" option, I get the popup giving me options of what boot to restart in. The restart proceeds, but this does not work however, it alwyas restarts on the default grub option. Is there a way to fix this? Thanks in advance. Jim