Sorry you see it that way. The patch in question wasn't added to stable as it was regarded to be more a kind of cleanup. As I said: with confirmation the patch is really helping I would have sent another request to add the patch to 4.12, and I'm sure it would have been accepted. There are very clear rules which patches may be applied to upstream stable kernels. As long as there is no proof a patch really cures some failure it won't be taken. As the developer of the patch agreed it would be improbable to help in any situation it wasn't taken initially. That is no blocking forever, though. Unfortunately you didn't try what I asked you to: take the failing kernel and add that single patch to verify it does help.